EmberRelationship re-engagement assistant
The friendship did not end. It just went quiet.
Months pass without anyone doing anything wrong. Ember keeps the thread — who has drifted, what you last shared — so you can pick it back up when you are ready. No nudging, no guilt, no messages sent on your behalf.
It notices before you do
The people slipping quietly out of frame.
Based on gaps in the interactions you saved and other relationship signals, Today may surface people who have gone quiet. It is not a guaranteed “longest quiet” ranking.
Ask, and it answers from your notes
Who haven't I spoken to in more than 45 days?
Keeper reads only what you chose to save — no scraped inboxes, no harvested contacts. Ask about the silence, and it answers with the facts you gave it, and nothing more.
Start again on your own terms
You reach out. Ember just holds the thread.
The last conversation comes back with it, so you are not opening with an apology. And if now is not the moment, you set a follow-up for later — Ember never sends a message automatically.
Quiet is not the same as over
Some friendships only need someone to go first.
Ember remembers who has gone quiet and what was left unsaid, then steps back and lets you write the message yourself. Nothing is sent automatically, nothing is scraped, and your notes stay encrypted and yours.